Want to attract love? First learn to love yourself…

I’d like to develop my first theme post to the notion of love, I mean sources and causes of love. Why are some people always in love and don’t know how to get rid of their next admirer and others suffer from everlasting solitude? You say because the first type is better, more self-confident, self-sufficient and attractive? To some extend. But what makes them special??? Loving themselves! That’s it! When person finds something worth loving and admiring within oneself, it’s a sure-fire way of attracting love into his/her life. Men, as well as women, are likely to find lots of drawbacks in their appearance and character. Gradually they work themselves into a pretty state when it suddenly dawns upon them that they have nothing to be loved for!
Nonsense!!!
We are unique, individual and manly! Every woman will be happy to have such a partner or lover! Remember that women like winners and tend to feel sorry about losers. You don’t want to be treated like a silly baby, do you?
When only you start recognizing that there are lots of things in yourself that make women being in raptures (there sure to be some!), this your self love starts sending imperceptible signals to the opposite sex invoking attraction, infatuation, affection and… (who knows, perhaps, it grows into something deeper???)
Learn to be and to love yourself! No one wants to have relations with a complete loser who values nothing in himself and triggers off only pity, compassion and what’s the worth - disgust.
Winners attract winners, success attracts success and on the contrary, anger causes anger, solitude provokes more solitude etc. This list may be endless.
The main idea I (as well as a number of psychologists) want you to realize is that without loving and respecting yourself you cannot expect others to fall in love with you. Be unique, don’t forget the way to the gym, respect yourself for being one and sooner or later love is sure to find way to your heart!