Let’s say that you managed to get acquainted with a nice girl and do not want to spoil these relations. What to do? (Or better to say what not to do?) Successful relations need constant work of both partners, ability to find compromises and the desire to understand our mate. It doesn’t seem to be difficult. Why are then everyday life and routine considered to be enemies of any relation? And what both of you should mind in order to keep that original warmth, tenderness and care?
Being a successful couple means being ready to sacrifice something for the sake of your mate without regretting it; putting your business off in order to listen about her quarrel with a friend etc. Successful relationships are always adding something useful to the union: money knowledge, household skills, setting goals, nurturing new and old friendships, building a beautiful home environment together, spending meals together, adding hobbies or other entertainment to leisure hours, increasing fun, intimacy, and physical love. Unfortunately, it is not at all easy and demands quite a large number of efforts.
One of the most important skills to master is the skill of communication. A friend of mine, who is happy in her family life, when asked about marriage and its success said: “Pretend not to hear something, pretend not to understand something, keep silent when eager to shout…” It really works, as it turns out. Communication can come in many forms, it does not always have to be a verbal exchange. Face expression, gestures, everything that the notion “body language” includes, is communication and it is part and parcel of successful relation. Sometimes one look is enough to break the ice or vice versa one wrong movement and your mate can take it as a personal offence. When it all comes down, it is a matter of upbringing and personal experience. But try to control your body language and the results will not make you wait long!!!
Communication is closely connected with emotions. Emotional, nonverbal communication plays a major role in all your relationships, throughout your life. Even the best verbal communication skills are not enough to create and sustain successful relationships. Without the ability to communicate emotion, it’s impossible to build or maintain healthy relationships, because the communication of emotions establishes the guideline that sustains all relationships. If you give emotional, warm, sincere emotions, you are sure to get even more back. So don’t be lazy and exercise positive attitude and optimistic approach!
Being a successful couple means being ready to sacrifice something for the sake of your mate without regretting it; putting your business off in order to listen about her quarrel with a friend etc. Successful relationships are always adding something useful to the union: money knowledge, household skills, setting goals, nurturing new and old friendships, building a beautiful home environment together, spending meals together, adding hobbies or other entertainment to leisure hours, increasing fun, intimacy, and physical love. Unfortunately, it is not at all easy and demands quite a large number of efforts.
One of the most important skills to master is the skill of communication. A friend of mine, who is happy in her family life, when asked about marriage and its success said: “Pretend not to hear something, pretend not to understand something, keep silent when eager to shout…” It really works, as it turns out. Communication can come in many forms, it does not always have to be a verbal exchange. Face expression, gestures, everything that the notion “body language” includes, is communication and it is part and parcel of successful relation. Sometimes one look is enough to break the ice or vice versa one wrong movement and your mate can take it as a personal offence. When it all comes down, it is a matter of upbringing and personal experience. But try to control your body language and the results will not make you wait long!!!
Communication is closely connected with emotions. Emotional, nonverbal communication plays a major role in all your relationships, throughout your life. Even the best verbal communication skills are not enough to create and sustain successful relationships. Without the ability to communicate emotion, it’s impossible to build or maintain healthy relationships, because the communication of emotions establishes the guideline that sustains all relationships. If you give emotional, warm, sincere emotions, you are sure to get even more back. So don’t be lazy and exercise positive attitude and optimistic approach!
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