Monday, October 22, 2007

How to call the Universe for help in love matter?

Having discussed the psychological and chemical causes of love, I believe it’s high time we got to attracting the opposite sex. How to do it and from where to start? Let’s regard everything from the very beginning.

Before searching for any kind of relationships, think what exactly you are looking for: one-time sex (no relations at all), sex from time to time (some image of relations, but preferable for some people), relations in order to kill time (your girl-friend doesn’t have the least inkling about your real motives) or serious relations with the possibility of creating a family.

For the first three cases there hardly can be any pieces of advice: pleasant appearance, the gift of the gab and self-confidence (for the extreme adventures medical certificate is also desirable).

I’d better say a couple of words about the last case when the word “relationships” acquires its original meaning.
So first of all find appropriate time and make a list of two columns: one column – those qualities you’d like to see in your future partner and the other – those qualities you’ll never accept. Try to concentrate only on the inner world of a person; the outer appearance is not so far important. Done? The next step deals with your imagination. Try to visualize your mate as detailed as possible. Think of what you can do together, what activity is likely to bring pleasure to both of you: going on a picnic, romantic dinner etc. By visualizing your future mate, you send some impulses to the Universe and the Universe in its own turn is expected to find you such a person depending on to what extend bright and legible your image is. If it is not clear enough, it’s you to blame if a person met doesn’t correspond to your ideas!

While visualizing your future partner, pay more attention to the inner world; don’t overindulge in creating the image of Penelope Kruz in your mind. Acting in such a way you may simply mislead the Universe. There are many individuals in the world who match your vibrations, and who possess the qualities you desire, but may not exactly match the outer shell you’ve made up in your mind. Thus, you may lose an excellent opportunity to find a suitable partner.

In cause of time you’ll meet women who possess qualities you need but not all. It’s up to you to decide whether it is the woman or not. But do not be in a hurry – it’s a kind of a test. The Universe moves people unconsciously toward each other. When that special one comes into your life, she will be vibrating at the same rate as you and you will have your perfect better half! You just say “Bingo!” and take the bull by the horns!!!
Before starting to think everything over, remember that loving yourself is also very important. Being happy within yourself, you attract others (see “Want to attract love? First learn to love yourself…”).

And don’t be too skeptical about this matter. Nobody knows for sure how the Universe works. Perhaps this scheme is not that senseless – then don’t take your time and start acting! As they say, nothing seek, nothing find!

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