Tuesday, November 27, 2007

See when a woman is really unterested in you

It’s almost unbearable for a man to be rejected by a woman. It hurts not only his feelings, but more his self-esteem and male’s ego. They try to pick up some giveaway clues to find out whether she is really hooked. But very often they are mislead by these clues and feel as if duped.

The reason for such misunderstanding lies in the fact, that females very often do not understand themselves. No wonder that you fail to make a head or tail of the whole situation! Still, there are some signs-signals by means of which you can see that she is really interested in you.

She “accidentally” occurs on your way several types during the day, even if you live in different parts of the city. You meet her in the street, in the café or nearest club. By behaving in such a way, woman pushes you to another step, she signals, that she likes you, but it’s you who have to do the next step. And if you read the signal correctly, you are not a long way from your dream!

Body language is the best signal. Even paying no attention to the movements, she can easily give all her intensions out, using some vivid gestures: she points in your direction with her leg, foot or shoulders, she leans toward you while talking, she plays with or tosses her hair, she toys with a piece of jewelry (like an earring) or strokes the stem of her glass, she keeps her eyes locked on you while she talks or drinks, she mirrors your body movements, she smiles when you check her out. These are really giveaway clues, which show that she is interested in you.

She tends to make a fuss out of your presence. Especially if you fail to read her signals, she will try to attract your attention by all means. Besides, if you notice that she is jealous to other women you are talking to, you may be 100% sure that she wants you to be more than just a friend.

She is never in a hurry. If the woman finds you interested, she is sure to give you her phone number, e-mail address and will gladly accept your invitation to go out. Even if she is really busy that very day, she is likely to say, “Well, I really can’t this Sunday, but next weak will be great”. And on the contrary, if you hear some phrases like "I'm really busy right now," or "Let me check my schedule," sorry, you have no chances! She is telling you Good Bye!

"The Probe" is the female tool used for evaluating a man's financial resources. It looks like a series of casual questions, but behind it a ruthless calculator counts everything. When a woman first meets a man that she is interested in, she will quiz him on his job, where he lives and what kind of car he has, all within a natural conversation. If you give the "right" answers, then the flirting signals will follow; but if not – this is not your chance!

These are the most obvious giveaway clues picking up which you get be sure that the girl of your dreams is really interested in you. Mind, that if the case is really that serious, you’ll notice more than one such signal, perhaps, your future partner is simply open-hearted and doesn’t mean any romance. So keep your eyes peeled and don’t hurry with your conclusions!

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