Relationships are usually a really hard work. If you relax and forget about it, you get lots of problems, misunderstanding and quarrels. You try to be always honest and call a spade a spade? Great, but not always wise! There are some things you should never tell your girlfriend if you don’t want to get her monkey up or even worse – break and spoil everything good you had.
Never tell her that she is fat or that she’s put on weight!
Even if it is really so, you’d better not dare to tell her about. It goes without saying that women are very much concerned about their weight, and if she’s put on some weight, she will notice it even without your comments. But if say something of the kind, she may think that you don’t find her attractive and sexy any longer. And this, in its own turn, may cause some serious problems in your relations!
Don’t tell her that your mom would have done this better!
Especially, if she tried to do her best, but failed! If you do say things like that from time to time, you are a mommy’s son and your relations are doomed to failure. Don’t compare her with her mom and the way your mother does the things. Your girlfriend will get offended and next time if not leaves you, but won’t try to do something pleasant for you! You love her for what and who she is, that’s why there’s no need to compare her with anybody else, even if it is your mom!
Don’t tell her about your ex!
Would you like to be always compared with some obscure figure from your partner’s past? Perhaps, not. Neither wants she! Especially, if it touches some intimate spheres of your life like sex. If you tell your girlfriend what a great sex you had with your ex, she will feel defective and won’t be able to relax concentrating on the process itself and her own desire to give you pleasure!
Don’t ask her to relax when she is upset or angry!
In general be careful with this word! Even if you don’t mean anything bad, your girlfriend is likely to get offended whenever asked to relax. It may seem to her that you don’t take her seriously and say these words in order to get rid of her! Consider what and in what situation you say! One careless word may cause you hours of showdown.
Don’t tell her that you don’t like her friends!
Of course, nobody forces you to like her friends. But you shouldn’t say anything bad about them either. She knows them for quite a lot period of time and is likely to reasons for that, besides, you have also some friends she doesn’t like either.
On the other extreme, don’t tell her that you like her friend! Even if you really like some of her friends, keep it a secret and don't tell your actual partner about it. Otherwise she may get hurt and angry and will stop trusting you!
Mind, that if you don’t tell all these things to your girlfriend, it doesn’t mean, that you are not honest. It means that you really care about her and don’t want to cause unnecessary worries and troubles in her life!
Never tell her that she is fat or that she’s put on weight!
Even if it is really so, you’d better not dare to tell her about. It goes without saying that women are very much concerned about their weight, and if she’s put on some weight, she will notice it even without your comments. But if say something of the kind, she may think that you don’t find her attractive and sexy any longer. And this, in its own turn, may cause some serious problems in your relations!
Don’t tell her that your mom would have done this better!
Especially, if she tried to do her best, but failed! If you do say things like that from time to time, you are a mommy’s son and your relations are doomed to failure. Don’t compare her with her mom and the way your mother does the things. Your girlfriend will get offended and next time if not leaves you, but won’t try to do something pleasant for you! You love her for what and who she is, that’s why there’s no need to compare her with anybody else, even if it is your mom!
Don’t tell her about your ex!
Would you like to be always compared with some obscure figure from your partner’s past? Perhaps, not. Neither wants she! Especially, if it touches some intimate spheres of your life like sex. If you tell your girlfriend what a great sex you had with your ex, she will feel defective and won’t be able to relax concentrating on the process itself and her own desire to give you pleasure!
Don’t ask her to relax when she is upset or angry!
In general be careful with this word! Even if you don’t mean anything bad, your girlfriend is likely to get offended whenever asked to relax. It may seem to her that you don’t take her seriously and say these words in order to get rid of her! Consider what and in what situation you say! One careless word may cause you hours of showdown.
Don’t tell her that you don’t like her friends!
Of course, nobody forces you to like her friends. But you shouldn’t say anything bad about them either. She knows them for quite a lot period of time and is likely to reasons for that, besides, you have also some friends she doesn’t like either.
On the other extreme, don’t tell her that you like her friend! Even if you really like some of her friends, keep it a secret and don't tell your actual partner about it. Otherwise she may get hurt and angry and will stop trusting you!
Mind, that if you don’t tell all these things to your girlfriend, it doesn’t mean, that you are not honest. It means that you really care about her and don’t want to cause unnecessary worries and troubles in her life!
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