I believe that almost everyone at least once on his life experienced the thrilling feeling of going on a blind date. On the one hand, you are very excited because you don’t know what awaits you and on the other – may lose all your hope after having seen our date.
For you not to go the limit, some rules of blind dating.
1. Do not be either too optimistic or too pessimistic. In general, don’t make a mountain out of a molehill. If the date turns out to be the woman of your dreams, you are a lucky chap and you’ll be really surprised. If somehow your date is not quite the one you expected, do not get upset at once, talk to her, spend the whole evening, and only then, if see that really nothing will come out of this, say “Good bye”. Do not put off this talk, otherwise it may drag on for months if not more. Be frank. Woman would rather prefer your lie to your pretence in relations.
2. Be attentive and caring. Women as well as men go to blind dates with rather low expectations, thus, it’s up to you to turn the situation into something sincere and intimate. Try not to be too nervous and make her feel at ease.
3. Do not start telling her about your problems! Present yourself as a mysterious book she’ll never get tired to read. If she knows that you live with…, work at…, sleep with… etc, she won’t need another date – she knows you already but hardly likes…
4. Keep in mind that though a blind date, but still it is the first date, so try not to spoil anything. Remember my pieces of advice?
Be yourself, be at ease, feel comfortable and don’t allow yourself too much. You need to control the situation and see, where you can say and where you can also touch…
For you not to go the limit, some rules of blind dating.
1. Do not be either too optimistic or too pessimistic. In general, don’t make a mountain out of a molehill. If the date turns out to be the woman of your dreams, you are a lucky chap and you’ll be really surprised. If somehow your date is not quite the one you expected, do not get upset at once, talk to her, spend the whole evening, and only then, if see that really nothing will come out of this, say “Good bye”. Do not put off this talk, otherwise it may drag on for months if not more. Be frank. Woman would rather prefer your lie to your pretence in relations.
2. Be attentive and caring. Women as well as men go to blind dates with rather low expectations, thus, it’s up to you to turn the situation into something sincere and intimate. Try not to be too nervous and make her feel at ease.
3. Do not start telling her about your problems! Present yourself as a mysterious book she’ll never get tired to read. If she knows that you live with…, work at…, sleep with… etc, she won’t need another date – she knows you already but hardly likes…
4. Keep in mind that though a blind date, but still it is the first date, so try not to spoil anything. Remember my pieces of advice?
Be yourself, be at ease, feel comfortable and don’t allow yourself too much. You need to control the situation and see, where you can say and where you can also touch…
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