Women’s Tricks

All females are known to be rather skilful and they know quite well to what trick they can resort in order to get finally what they want. And men, in their own turn, tend to be caught without even noticing it. In the long run everybody is already used to such state of things and considers it to be almost ok, when women cry, shout or lose consciousness, because “she wants so”!

If you don’t want your woman to use manipulation tricks on you, have a look at the following information.

The most frequently used manipulation trick is tears. Each female notwithstanding the age knows perfectly well how to achieve her aim by means of tears. Even at school they start crying in order to avoid a bad mark and to be forgiven for misbehavior. Later they are not eager to get rid of this trick, because they are already skilled in it and know how to get what they want shedding a tear! And men usually feel awkward and are often at a loss when they see a crying woman; they do not know what to do and try to stop her crying by all possible and impossible means, making concessions. The best variant here is to try to avoid tears and do not allow anybody to dupe you, even if it is your sweetheart!

If a woman wants something, she is sure to achieve it in any case. Besides, she knows perfectly well how to do this and how to become the winner of the situation. Another frequently used manipulation trick is sexual bribery and expensive gifts. If your woman starts acting rather unusually in bed (I mean really unusually, in an uncommon for her way) and afterwards expresses her burning desire to have something, to go somewhere, to buy something etc, keep your eyes peeled – it is likely to be the case of her manipulation. The same about expensive souvenirs: if she suddenly presents you with the thing you’ve always been dreaming of, I don’t say you should suspect her, but be careful – she’s playing her tricks on you!

Has it ever happened to you, when she suddenly starts noticing how clever, handsome, sexy and industrious you are? And soon afterwards says that she urgently needs something? If yes, congratulations! You’ve been caught! But you shouldn’t blame yourself, because it is sometimes next to impossible to say her change of mood from real play with you.

Women usually act without risk of loss. They know whom they may resort to in order to get support. Let’s take your friends. During the party she talks to them and among other things says what could make her absolutely (or at least partially) happy. When you go to your friends before some coming holiday to ask their opinion, they are likely to say what they have already heard from the primary source. It’s not very bad – at least you’ll make her the present she is sure to like!!!

And what about jealousy??? She flirts with another man, smiles and by all her behavior tries to show that you are far from being the only game in town? You are afraid to lose her and act upon the principle of making her happy and fulfill all her wishes. Familiar situation? You are again caught! And she knows you perfectly well!!! In this situation try to ignore her attempts to make you be jealous. Otherwise you are risking to be manipulated.

If her attempts to attract your attraction fall flat, she’ll resort to the last weapon in her imaginary “ambitious war”. She’ll become busier, calmer and will find almost no time for you. You may think that she has an affair and will try to improve the situation by all means. How? Of course while trying to fulfill all her desires! Only to make her happy!!! If you don’t feel like dancing to her tune, be frank and ask her if she still wants to be with you. She will have no other way out but for admitting her “misbehavior”!
Another variant of the same scenario – she is trying to look helpless and totally unhappy!!! She needs her knight (you) badly!!! She needs your support, your strength and your understanding! Poor thing! She’s simply pulling your leg! But it is so difficult not to be caught! And may be we should from time to time allow them to dupe us, be their strong knights and give them what they want, because in the majority of cases they start this game because they lack our attention, care and tenderness. Think it over before saying her “No”!

Is virginity a problem???

What to do if your girlfriend turns out to be a virgin? Sure thing, you are shocked, but at the same time proud, that you may become her first man. But virginity is to some extend a problem, because the longer she doesn’t give up, the more painful the process is likely to be. The specialists claim, that the most appropriate age for first sex is from 18 till 20. But if it already so happened, you have to take things under your control and try to change the situation. Unless she knows what she misses, she won’t agree to this. Besides, she must rely upon you and believe you, otherwise she won’t consider you to be that special one, she has been waiting for.

Don’t insist on having sex – in the long run she has to make her own decision and to dare to do it at last! It’s normal she will be nervous and frightened, cause doesn’t know what awaits her, and her friends’ tips won’t be of good avail here.

Being an expert in the matter (so far) you have to be very tender, caring, but at the same time determined. Do not hurry up, move slowly, but confidently, ask her how she feels. The first sex leaves an unforgettable impression on women and to some extend form her attitude to sex, so be careful and do not let things go out of your control.

She must be sure that there is not danger of pregnancy. Discuss the choice of contraceptives before and choose one that suits you perfectly. If she is confident of safe sex, she is likely to relax better.

Make foreplay longer, it will allow her to relax and really want you. Kiss her, examine her body, see what she likes and what she doesn’t. If she is ashamed of her body, convince her that she is as beautiful as never before.

Be especially careful at the beginning of penetrating – in this stage she is likely to feel a minor amount of pain and later when you come to virginal membrane itself. When these two barriers are overcome, you both can sigh with relief.

Besides, you should be ready to face her refusal at the responsible moment. She seemed to want it, but got frightened and felt she was not ready. If it happens, don’t insist and show that you understand her and are ready to wait. Another variant – make her believe that she was right when decided to give up; she may need your approval and support. But do it carefully and gently – otherwise you’ll spoil everything!

Your main task is to prove that sex, so mush discussed, is really a pleasant thing and she won’t lose, but gain another important aspect of her life!

Your gifts and her thoughts about them…

The coming season of holidays will require from you a number of presents for your girl-friend. For me personally it is always a difficult job. To choose a good present, to meet her demands and make her happy is far from an easy task. Besides, women are likely to interpret the presents in their own way and very often not alone, but with the help of their mother, best friend, colleagues at work etc. As you see, a problem rises here – how not to pull a boner. But there is always a way out, consider the following information and make your choice!

Perfumes.
In order your girlfriend to like the gift, you should know her and her taste perfectly well, otherwise you are really risking. If you think that buying perfumes is an easy task, you are mistaken, ‘cause your better half is unlikely to wear a scent she dislikes only because it was your gift. So if you are not sure of her tastes, don’t buy perfumes.

Jewelry.
Jewelry is rather expensive gift and if you choose it as your present you hint that you love her and that these relations are really very important for you. Do not hurry up to present her with jewelry; otherwise you may face two problems: she may be scared, if is not sure of her own feelings or you may be accused of trying to buy her attention.

Gargets.
Life in the 21st century is next to impossible without different gargets and small devices. They are also rather expensive and by choosing such a present you show your care and love, you prove that you are eager to make her life easier and more convenient. She will be glad to get iPod or a new handy as a present. So don’t save money on your close people!

Trips.
Another zero-risk gift is suggesting of spending time together. Depending on the sum you are ready to spend it may be an exotic trip or just a weekend in a cottage – only you and she. Any woman will appreciate such a gift, because you show that it is of vital importance for you to spend more time with her. Besides, it is the best way out, if you are not sure which material present will meet her demands.

Food and drink.
Frankly speaking these are not gifts at all! A bar of chocolate will be all right if you want to do something pleasant for her, but it is not that size for a present! A bottle of wine and chocolate are too general and do not express either your attitude towards her or your real feelings.

Lingerie.
This is the most intimate present from all described above. And presenting your girlfriend with lingerie has several pitfalls. If she is rather emancipated and doesn’t blush speaking about sex, she is sure to like your gift (if you know her taste, of course), in this case you may experiment and even ask her to try the gift on on the spur of the moment! But if she is too conservative your attempts to make her happy will fall flat. She may even get offended for your interference into her too private life.

Sure thing, these are not all possible ideas for the gifts. It’s up to you to decide what is likely and what is unlikely to make her happy and make at the same time feel at ease. If you know the person well enough, you can go ahead with some extraordinary crazy gift ideas, if not – try not to offend anybody’s feelings. A bit of fantasy and desire to surprise her will do their business – she will be happy!

What is it that women want from men?

Women all over the world are fighting with men for their own rights, personal freedom and independence. This movement is known as feminism. At the same time, I’m inclined to think, that women will be women and despite all their success in career, studies etc. they need to be treated like women and are never against chivalry.

Perhaps, we’ll never understand the reasons for getting offended when we didn’t kiss her and she expected us to do it. For us it is a trifle, for her – personal tragedy. Learn how to avoid such ambivalence in relations.

Don’t forget to phone her back!
Women need much attention. It doesn’t mean that you have to call her 100 times a day and say that you miss her, want her, need her… It is enough to call her back saying a couple of tender words you are sure to find for your sweetheart. One or two sentences will be enough to show her that you do care and that you are not indifferent to her.

Kiss her without reasons!
This is what I meant at the beginning. Kiss her with no reasons to show that you want her, that you are interested in sex only with her. If at the same time you hold her hand, you’ll make her extremely happy and eager to do something pleasant for you.

Dress for her!
If you dress up for her, she is sure not only to notice it, but moreover she is sure to appreciate it. Women like sharp-dressed men and only these men are sure to arouse interest and sex appeal in women. If you don’t want to lose your girl-friend’s affection, wear a nice shirt and dress pants – the result and effects won’t make you wait long.

Dance with her!
For a woman a dance with a beloved person will always contain some romance and intimacy, something that makes her feel special and always desired. Don’t be stubborn and agree to go out with her, ask her for a dance, embrace her, make each moment of your relations unforgettable. Try it and you’ll see that you like it too!

Remember all birthdays and anniversaries!
Nothing can get her monkey up more than your forgetting some important (for her) dates. Besides, if you want to keep your privacy and intimacy as long as possible, try to remember even insignificant dates: when you first kissed her, when you said you loved her for the first time, where you spent your first vacation together, what you noticed about her the first time you met… These trifles-details will provide your relations with intimacy and trust – she will be always ready to depend on you.

Visit her family!
Nothing will happen to you if you visit her parents from time to time. It will be pleasant for both sides: she will adore you for paying attention to her family, her parents won’t complain of her rare visits – you will cover your weak points (if you behave in a right way and don’t overreact).

If you ask me, “What is it that women want from men”, I’ll say that small things do matter. If you neglect those details that are of vital importance for her, you neglect all the relations. And when only she feels neglected, lots of other problems will show their real faces. Let the sleeping lie, take this information as food for thought and enjoy your being together!!!

Some women you are never to date with

There are some women you should never touch with a bargepole. It’s not because they are bad, good or something else. That springs from the fact that they play their own role in your life and it is desirable that you should not forget about it, if you want to save your reputation, your friends and your money.

Your best friend’s sister
Many people are convinced, that friendship between a man and a woman cannot exist. If you are a lucky chap and have a female friend, don’t be stupid and never date with her sister. Otherwise you are likely to lose both: your sweetheart and your best friend. A friend is a friend, bit as soon as it touches upon her family she will be ready to forget about your friendship when only you offend her sister.

Your secretary
Relations at work almost always result in an abject failure. Everybody pretends to know nothing, gossiping behind your back. You cannot concentrate on your work because of her, the failure comes after failure and in the end you have neither lover nor career. Mind it before jumping into your secretary’s bed (or before having sex in the janitor’s closet).

Your ex-girlfriend
Whenever you feel lonely and seem to want your ex-girlfriend, think twice and only then jump into the relationships. Remember what caused your break, the same is sure to happen again sooner or later. Do not let memories win. There were sure lots of pleasant moments and she is sure to be great, sexy and very attractive, but she IS in the list!

Your friend’s ex
Even if they are no longer together, even if they are good friends, even if he says, “I don’t care”, it is still taboo. If you start dating with your friend’s ex, you may say good-bye to your friendship. Soon everybody will know what kind of friend you are and you’ll lose your reputation. As well as in case with your best female friend’s sister, keep your eyes peeled!

The stripper
If for you dating and relationships mean more than mere sex, strippers are also in your black list! Jealousy, constant quarrels and ding-dongs will spoil and poison these relations very quickly. Nothing good will come out of it!

These are those women you should never date unless you like troubles. Mind it when you make a pass at somebody from the list!

See when a woman is really unterested in you

It’s almost unbearable for a man to be rejected by a woman. It hurts not only his feelings, but more his self-esteem and male’s ego. They try to pick up some giveaway clues to find out whether she is really hooked. But very often they are mislead by these clues and feel as if duped.

The reason for such misunderstanding lies in the fact, that females very often do not understand themselves. No wonder that you fail to make a head or tail of the whole situation! Still, there are some signs-signals by means of which you can see that she is really interested in you.

She “accidentally” occurs on your way several types during the day, even if you live in different parts of the city. You meet her in the street, in the café or nearest club. By behaving in such a way, woman pushes you to another step, she signals, that she likes you, but it’s you who have to do the next step. And if you read the signal correctly, you are not a long way from your dream!

Body language is the best signal. Even paying no attention to the movements, she can easily give all her intensions out, using some vivid gestures: she points in your direction with her leg, foot or shoulders, she leans toward you while talking, she plays with or tosses her hair, she toys with a piece of jewelry (like an earring) or strokes the stem of her glass, she keeps her eyes locked on you while she talks or drinks, she mirrors your body movements, she smiles when you check her out. These are really giveaway clues, which show that she is interested in you.

She tends to make a fuss out of your presence. Especially if you fail to read her signals, she will try to attract your attention by all means. Besides, if you notice that she is jealous to other women you are talking to, you may be 100% sure that she wants you to be more than just a friend.

She is never in a hurry. If the woman finds you interested, she is sure to give you her phone number, e-mail address and will gladly accept your invitation to go out. Even if she is really busy that very day, she is likely to say, “Well, I really can’t this Sunday, but next weak will be great”. And on the contrary, if you hear some phrases like "I'm really busy right now," or "Let me check my schedule," sorry, you have no chances! She is telling you Good Bye!

"The Probe" is the female tool used for evaluating a man's financial resources. It looks like a series of casual questions, but behind it a ruthless calculator counts everything. When a woman first meets a man that she is interested in, she will quiz him on his job, where he lives and what kind of car he has, all within a natural conversation. If you give the "right" answers, then the flirting signals will follow; but if not – this is not your chance!

These are the most obvious giveaway clues picking up which you get be sure that the girl of your dreams is really interested in you. Mind, that if the case is really that serious, you’ll notice more than one such signal, perhaps, your future partner is simply open-hearted and doesn’t mean any romance. So keep your eyes peeled and don’t hurry with your conclusions!

Some things You should never tell Her

Relationships are usually a really hard work. If you relax and forget about it, you get lots of problems, misunderstanding and quarrels. You try to be always honest and call a spade a spade? Great, but not always wise! There are some things you should never tell your girlfriend if you don’t want to get her monkey up or even worse – break and spoil everything good you had.

Never tell her that she is fat or that she’s put on weight!
Even if it is really so, you’d better not dare to tell her about. It goes without saying that women are very much concerned about their weight, and if she’s put on some weight, she will notice it even without your comments. But if say something of the kind, she may think that you don’t find her attractive and sexy any longer. And this, in its own turn, may cause some serious problems in your relations!

Don’t tell her that your mom would have done this better!
Especially, if she tried to do her best, but failed! If you do say things like that from time to time, you are a mommy’s son and your relations are doomed to failure. Don’t compare her with her mom and the way your mother does the things. Your girlfriend will get offended and next time if not leaves you, but won’t try to do something pleasant for you! You love her for what and who she is, that’s why there’s no need to compare her with anybody else, even if it is your mom!

Don’t tell her about your ex!
Would you like to be always compared with some obscure figure from your partner’s past? Perhaps, not. Neither wants she! Especially, if it touches some intimate spheres of your life like sex. If you tell your girlfriend what a great sex you had with your ex, she will feel defective and won’t be able to relax concentrating on the process itself and her own desire to give you pleasure!

Don’t ask her to relax when she is upset or angry!
In general be careful with this word! Even if you don’t mean anything bad, your girlfriend is likely to get offended whenever asked to relax. It may seem to her that you don’t take her seriously and say these words in order to get rid of her! Consider what and in what situation you say! One careless word may cause you hours of showdown.

Don’t tell her that you don’t like her friends!
Of course, nobody forces you to like her friends. But you shouldn’t say anything bad about them either. She knows them for quite a lot period of time and is likely to reasons for that, besides, you have also some friends she doesn’t like either.
On the other extreme, don’t tell her that you like her friend! Even if you really like some of her friends, keep it a secret and don't tell your actual partner about it. Otherwise she may get hurt and angry and will stop trusting you!

Mind, that if you don’t tell all these things to your girlfriend, it doesn’t mean, that you are not honest. It means that you really care about her and don’t want to cause unnecessary worries and troubles in her life!