Wednesday, December 12, 2007

What is it that women want from men?

Women all over the world are fighting with men for their own rights, personal freedom and independence. This movement is known as feminism. At the same time, I’m inclined to think, that women will be women and despite all their success in career, studies etc. they need to be treated like women and are never against chivalry.

Perhaps, we’ll never understand the reasons for getting offended when we didn’t kiss her and she expected us to do it. For us it is a trifle, for her – personal tragedy. Learn how to avoid such ambivalence in relations.

Don’t forget to phone her back!
Women need much attention. It doesn’t mean that you have to call her 100 times a day and say that you miss her, want her, need her… It is enough to call her back saying a couple of tender words you are sure to find for your sweetheart. One or two sentences will be enough to show her that you do care and that you are not indifferent to her.

Kiss her without reasons!
This is what I meant at the beginning. Kiss her with no reasons to show that you want her, that you are interested in sex only with her. If at the same time you hold her hand, you’ll make her extremely happy and eager to do something pleasant for you.

Dress for her!
If you dress up for her, she is sure not only to notice it, but moreover she is sure to appreciate it. Women like sharp-dressed men and only these men are sure to arouse interest and sex appeal in women. If you don’t want to lose your girl-friend’s affection, wear a nice shirt and dress pants – the result and effects won’t make you wait long.

Dance with her!
For a woman a dance with a beloved person will always contain some romance and intimacy, something that makes her feel special and always desired. Don’t be stubborn and agree to go out with her, ask her for a dance, embrace her, make each moment of your relations unforgettable. Try it and you’ll see that you like it too!

Remember all birthdays and anniversaries!
Nothing can get her monkey up more than your forgetting some important (for her) dates. Besides, if you want to keep your privacy and intimacy as long as possible, try to remember even insignificant dates: when you first kissed her, when you said you loved her for the first time, where you spent your first vacation together, what you noticed about her the first time you met… These trifles-details will provide your relations with intimacy and trust – she will be always ready to depend on you.

Visit her family!
Nothing will happen to you if you visit her parents from time to time. It will be pleasant for both sides: she will adore you for paying attention to her family, her parents won’t complain of her rare visits – you will cover your weak points (if you behave in a right way and don’t overreact).

If you ask me, “What is it that women want from men”, I’ll say that small things do matter. If you neglect those details that are of vital importance for her, you neglect all the relations. And when only she feels neglected, lots of other problems will show their real faces. Let the sleeping lie, take this information as food for thought and enjoy your being together!!!

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