How not to lay it thick after the first date

Your first date was rather successful, you both enjoyed the evening, spent wonderful time and… she gave you her phone number! Don’t force the events and don’t over-react, otherwise everything may be useless. Don’t hurry up to phone her, even if you have this burning desire! She expects this and you’ll do nothing unusual if call her next day, or even worse, the same evening! She may think that you are too obtrusive and won’t like to continue these relations. And that’s not we are fighting for, is it? The best strategy is to wait a day or two – such your line of behavior is sure to make her think of you. And that’s the first plus for our benefit!

Another taboo: don’t start chatting for hours telling about all the news in your life. Be precise and know exactly with what reason you are calling her. You don’t know this woman well enough and can easily spoil the whole positive impression of yourself if you begin to speak about those things she’d never discuss with a stranger (yes, I mean it! Though rather handsome, but still a stranger!). Speak on the most general topics, but on the other hand, avoid being too predictable. The best variant is to ask how she’s doing, say that you’d like to see her and invite for the second date. If she agrees, that’s another plus, if not, don’t lose your heart. Say, that you are really sorry and phone her back in a couple of days. Women like when men do their best in order to win their favor!

How to behave during your next dates and foresee her desires? How to see that she is “ready” for the next stage? There are no universal tips of advice here. You should be a good psychologist, analyse the situation and turn it into a suitable for you angle. Women as well as men do need sex, but they are not always ready to make the first step and show it. But it is not a universal truth either, ‘cause for some women one date is enough to jump into your bed, and with the others it will take more time and effort and not every man can agree to wait so long. But mind, that if you still decide to wait, you can be rewarded and get unknown before that satisfaction. Your own line of behavior is also very important here. You should be sometimes patient, sometimes insistent, and sometimes indifferent. See to it that you keep to your strategy and any woman is sure to give up in the end. Simply decide for yourself, whether the game is worth the candle!

How not to flop during the date with a woman

Before the date (especially, if it is the first one) males try to build a kind of a strategy upon which they act and which (in case of success, of course) finishes in bed. But if something goes wrong, we are likely to feel awkward, at a loss and our bravado disappears. Mind, that women are more sensible in this matter and feel everything we have only thought about. Women are usually far from being naïve, that is to say were not born yesterday and know perfectly well what your major intention is! So be careful, unless you are not afraid of spoiling everything from the very start.

Infect her with your positive attitude and optimism! Smile and show that you really enjoy her company. If you start complaining, consider your relation to be over. You may get her compassion, but nothing more! Make her laugh, make her be interested in your personality come wind, come weather.

Don’t be afraid to be rejected and if it happens, don’t concentrate on this small failure – consider it as the next step on the way to your victory and never give up. Let’s say, you asked for her telephone number and she refused. One can say, “Oh, ok, it was nice talking to you” and leave at once. But you not only have to stay, but you shouldn’t show any bitterness or disappointment, pretend you simply don’t care whether you get this number or not, continue your talk as if nothing had happened and, believe me, you are sure to get the number in the end!!!

Another example: you tried to kiss her, but she didn’t let you. The most common reactions of a man are, “Sorry, I didn’t mean anything of the kind” or sitting in silence creating awkward situation. The phrase of this kind won’t do, because you start lying (it is just exactly what you mean!) and sitting and keeping silent you spoil the whole impression of yourself. Distract her attention and continue the date. One battle is lost, but the war is sure to be won by you!

Another important thing you should mind: a woman will never sleep with a man, whom she doesn’t respect. Gain her respect, show yourself not only as a good interlocutor, but also as a good listener, interesting personality and an experienced seducer! Mind that Art of seduction and cross the bridge when you come to it!

Don’t be down in the mouth, if she, after you have seen her home, doesn’t invite you in. It doesn’t mean that she doesn’t like you. Perhaps she wants to take her time and doesn’t want to hurry or simply has monthlies. Do not insist, thank her for the great time you had and ask if you can see her again. She can hardly refuse…

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