All females are known to be rather skilful and they know quite well to what trick they can resort in order to get finally what they want. And men, in their own turn, tend to be caught without even noticing it. In the long run everybody is already used to such state of things and considers it to be almost ok, when women cry, shout or lose consciousness, because “she wants so”!
If you don’t want your woman to use manipulation tricks on you, have a look at the following information.
If you don’t want your woman to use manipulation tricks on you, have a look at the following information.
The most frequently used manipulation trick is tears. Each female notwithstanding the age knows perfectly well how to achieve her aim by means of tears. Even at school they start crying in order to avoid a bad mark and to be forgiven for misbehavior. Later they are not eager to get rid of this trick, because they are already skilled in it and know how to get what they want shedding a tear! And men usually feel awkward and are often at a loss when they see a crying woman; they do not know what to do and try to stop her crying by all possible and impossible means, making concessions. The best variant here is to try to avoid tears and do not allow anybody to dupe you, even if it is your sweetheart!
If a woman wants something, she is sure to achieve it in any case. Besides, she knows perfectly well how to do this and how to become the winner of the situation. Another frequently used manipulation trick is sexual bribery and expensive gifts. If your woman starts acting rather unusually in bed (I mean really unusually, in an uncommon for her way) and afterwards expresses her burning desire to have something, to go somewhere, to buy something etc, keep your eyes peeled – it is likely to be the case of her manipulation. The same about expensive souvenirs: if she suddenly presents you with the thing you’ve always been dreaming of, I don’t say you should suspect her, but be careful – she’s playing her tricks on you!
Has it ever happened to you, when she suddenly starts noticing how clever, handsome, sexy and industrious you are? And soon afterwards says that she urgently needs something? If yes, congratulations! You’ve been caught! But you shouldn’t blame yourself, because it is sometimes next to impossible to say her change of mood from real play with you.
Women usually act without risk of loss. They know whom they may resort to in order to get support. Let’s take your friends. During the party she talks to them and among other things says what could make her absolutely (or at least partially) happy. When you go to your friends before some coming holiday to ask their opinion, they are likely to say what they have already heard from the primary source. It’s not very bad – at least you’ll make her the present she is sure to like!!!
And what about jealousy??? She flirts with another man, smiles and by all her behavior tries to show that you are far from being the only game in town? You are afraid to lose her and act upon the principle of making her happy and fulfill all her wishes. Familiar situation? You are again caught! And she knows you perfectly well!!! In this situation try to ignore her attempts to make you be jealous. Otherwise you are risking to be manipulated.
If her attempts to attract your attraction fall flat, she’ll resort to the last weapon in her imaginary “ambitious war”. She’ll become busier, calmer and will find almost no time for you. You may think that she has an affair and will try to improve the situation by all means. How? Of course while trying to fulfill all her desires! Only to make her happy!!! If you don’t feel like dancing to her tune, be frank and ask her if she still wants to be with you. She will have no other way out but for admitting her “misbehavior”!
Another variant of the same scenario – she is trying to look helpless and totally unhappy!!! She needs her knight (you) badly!!! She needs your support, your strength and your understanding! Poor thing! She’s simply pulling your leg! But it is so difficult not to be caught! And may be we should from time to time allow them to dupe us, be their strong knights and give them what they want, because in the majority of cases they start this game because they lack our attention, care and tenderness. Think it over before saying her “No”!
